I personally wanted my Wife to Cuckold me - (to have sex with other men,that was back in the mid 1980's),I had no idea why,other then I desired her to,persuaded her to,and soon she was,and it ended our marriage.She felt she needed a different type man,I am sure she felt I was gay,she just needed out of the relationship,thus asked me for a divorce-I very much don't blame her,and it was best.
I do remember thinking at that time-"She needs a real-man,I truly at that time didn't fantasize about having sex with her lovers,other then asking her about ,how they made her feel,?did they they pleasure her well?,if she told me they had big cocks,bigger then mind,it turned me on,I never seen them in the "act",until I accidentally caught then in the act right before the divorce(I arrived home early that night unexpected),,I seen his cock,I realized I wanted to suck it! / wanted it in my bottom.- yet I still tried to deny it for at least 10 years, until Wanting a girl friend in 1997 to cuckold me,she as well did,I was modeling for art classes by then,had the chance to be with a real-man sexually, I took it,she understood,we stopped seeing each other and so I found my true sexually identity as "Fem-male".
Anyway for years,I have searched for any good imformation on "being a Cuckold".
I have had very little luck,I came across the Following Discussion on the topic,so will post-it,then Critic it.
What is the difference between a cuckold and a bisexual?
What I mainly see in the above replies is the same old " Stereotyping" humanity assuming,where in reality unless we talk to each individual male whom wants his wife or girlfriend to "Cuckold" him and ask the simply question: "what is your sexual Role,fem or male, do you want to truly perform Fellatio on the man/ have him mount you?
I continually see it ,symbolized as a form of "being a submissive", and " humiliation" and a form of Fetish,which maybe it is for some,yet for many I believe it is a sign that their sexual orientation is very Fem-male.transgender etc.Thus to say someone is bi-sexual is only half the story,one needs to then know,is their orientation, in the "Role" of male or Female.?
One must remember that in 1985 for example there was no Internet,I had no idea what a Cuckold was, or even that humanity might even have a Term for a male ,that wished his female mate(wife/girl-friend) have sex with other men.So I was at odds in my own mind,why I desired such a thing,I also had all but forgotten my early sexual relation at 13years old(put it out of my mind).The idea that I might be attracted sexually to another man was something I could not consider,didn't want to think that ,I can't possibly "Not be a Real Man", so in essense I claimed in my on mind,"It's just a fantasy",yet this fantasy became "Reality" and now I had to deal with it.
Not until I met ,my girl in 1995,I think fell in love with her, and in 1996 I was asking her to cuckold me,she was very reluctant,to see another guy,then one day she told me that there was a guy from work,that really wanted to go-out with her,I was very excited,as she could tell,she said then that she would if it turned me on so much-"for me",I didn't like the idea just for me,yet looking back I think I was being "Selfish",yet to be honest I still didn't know what I was really doing!.Not until she had been seeing this other guy (routinely)for nearly 6 months,her and I where talking,she came right out and asked me "Michael do you want my friend to "fuck" you to,do you wish you could suck his cock too!",,it didn't dawn on me until she asked,almost by her asking,it made me see she was accepting that it was ok,if I did want to have a Man, like she was having a Man. I was reluctant to say "Yes",yet I did say yes. At that moment,I realized "I had been Wanting a Man, as she was having a Man",almost as though I was living my desire through her.
My thoughts at this time,are that through the distortions of the fetishes of Cuckolding is taken as just that!,a Fetish,as some distorted sexual desire that the person or peoples are completely aware of what they are doing.
I have been exploring