The " Female-roled-male " as element of human evolution

              Important point that I wish to make ;  Believe it or not, there are Str8 men out there whom , once they understood
              my dilemma , that my sexually orientation is the " Need " to be " Female roled ", and by myself conveying my feelings
              to them honestly, they could relate, be empathtic, even Altruistic        

Other versions have: "passive homosexual partners", "men who are prostitutes", "effeminate call boys", "men who let other men use them for sex", "those who make women of themselves".

Evolutionary psychology is a scientific discipline that approaches human behavior through a lens that incorporates the effects of evolution. It combines the science of psychology with the study of biology. Evolutionary psychologists seek to explain people's emotions, thoughts, and responses based on Charles Darwin's Theory of Evolution Through Natural Selection, similarly to how evolutionary biologists explain an organism's physical features.

Evolutionary Psychology Approach

Proponents of this psychological approach posit that as our ancestors confronted problems and developed ways of solving them, some had certain innate instincts and intelligence that gave them the abilities to figure out and apply the most successful solutions. In doing so, they gained advantages, such as better health or a longer lifespan, allowing them to produce more offspring through the process of natural selection.

According to evolutionary psychology, hunter-gatherer ancestors who had psychological advantages passed down these behavioral traits to future generations, resulting in a population of offspring that no longer need to consciously think about certain beneficial behaviors, as they simply “come naturally.”

                 The Native Americans had  defined "Terms" (names) for " Female-roled-males "


                           They now may call the Trait / Condition , Two-Spirit, the early Europeans called this "berdache"

                                            whatever the term used, it implies historically mainly as a "Female-roled-male"


                                                          Thus a very large population of peoples, in their cultures, 


                                                          Have  publicly recognized individuals that are " berdache"

                                                                                          and it Remains

                                                         Though the Europeans tried to Wipe-out the "berdache"

                                                                                          they " Remain "

                                                     Who is fooling who ?, Nature has allowed this trait to Remain, why?

                                                              There are advantages of having " berdache" people,why ?

                                                     The Berdache tradition is a Native American/American Indian tradition that allowed for gender role change. Gender role change is the adoption, for various reasons, of a culturally defined social role that is dictated to the opposite sex. This means that a man could adopt the social role of a woman and vice versa.

                                                             You could also call it a " culture " in it's self, with very common traits.


                                                                     And like my self, I am female roled psychologically

                                                                             and in essense as long as I can remember,

                                                                                 100% sexually in practice since 1998

                                                                     And if had been a social norm, as with Native cultures,

                                                                     I would of dressed publicly in a more female like style

                      For example the image above portrays how I like to dress on daily basis, working around house etc.

                     Like myself, as I'm am sure to all Female-roled-males, you want to be identified, and accepted as you are,

                 Thus as a society the role as to first be identified, then accepted, then even ethics can be prescribed for the role,

                                                                 in essence the Role it's self can evolve

Why Evolution May Be an Explanation for Phobias

Phobias are fears that are irrational and that go beyond protecting you from danger.

For example, research studies show you are more likely to fear snakes and spiders than other predatory animals, such as lions and tigers.

From an evolutionary point of view, this may be due to the fact that snakes and spiders are more difficult to spot. It made sense to our ancestors to look carefully for poisonous creatures before sticking their hands into woodpiles or overgrown brush.

Over time, that ability to recognize and quickly react to these small, quiet creatures became a trait that many humans inherited as an instinctive human reaction. In fact, a young child who has never heard of the dangers of snakes or spiders may have a dramatic reaction at seeing one, possibly rooted in evolutionary psychology.



Brochure used by Save Our Children, a political coalition formed in 1977 in Miami, Florida, U.S., to overturn a recently legislated county ordinance that banned discrimination in areas of housing, employment, and public accommodation based on sexual orientation

Homophobia manifests in different forms, and a number of different types have been postulated, among which are internalized homophobia, social homophobia, emotional homophobia, rationalized homophobia, and others.[24] There were also ideas to classify homophobia, racism, and sexism as an intolerant personality disorder.[25]

In 1992, the American Psychiatric Association, recognizing the power of the stigma against homosexuality, issued the following statement, reaffirmed by the Board of Trustees, July 2011: "Whereas homosexuality per se implies no impairment in judgment, stability, reliability, or general social or vocational capabilities, the American Psychiatric Association (APA) calls on all international health organizations, psychiatric organizations, and individual psychiatrists in other countries to urge the repeal in their own countries of legislation that penalizes homosexual acts by consenting adults in private. Further, APA calls on these organizations and individuals to do all that is possible to decrease the stigma related to homosexuality wherever and whenever it may occur."[26]

Many world religions contain anti-homosexual teachings, while other religions have varying degrees of ambivalence, neutrality, or incorporate teachings that regard homosexuals as third gender. Even within some religions which generally discourage homosexuality, there are also people who view homosexuality positively, and some religious denominations bless or conduct same-sex marriages. There also exist so-called Queer religions, dedicated to serving the spiritual needs of LGBTQI persons. Queer theology seeks to provide a counterpoint to religious homophobia.[27] In 2015, attorney and author Roberta Kaplan stated that Kim Davis "is the clearest example of someone who wants to use a religious liberty argument to discriminate [against same-sex couples]."[28]

                                    In the United States , this is the number 1 cause for homophobia, I say

Christianity and the Bible

Passages commonly interpreted as condemning homosexuality or same-gender sexual relations are found in both Old and New Testaments of the Bible. Leviticus 18:22, says "Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination." The destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah is also commonly seen as a condemnation of homosexuality. Christians and Jews who oppose homosexuality often cite such passages; historical context and interpretation is more complicated. Scholarly debate over the interpretation of these passages has focused on placing them in proper historical context, for instance pointing out that Sodom's sins are historically interpreted as being other than homosexuality, and on the translation of rare or unusual words in the passages in question. In Religion Dispatches magazine, Candace Chellew-Hodge argues that the six or so verses that are often cited to condemn LGBT people are referring instead to "abusive sex". She states that the Bible has no condemnation for "loving, committed, gay and lesbian relationships" and that Jesus was silent on the subject.[29] This view is opposed by a number of conservative evangelicals,[30] including Robert A. J. Gagnon[31]

The official teaching of the Catholic Church regarding homosexuality is that same-sex behavior should not be expressed.[32] The Catechism of the Catholic Church States that, "'homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered.'...They are contrary to the natural law.... Under no circumstances can they be approved."[33]

To even express this phrase " .They are contrary to the natural law." shows me that this person whom wrote this has a poor understanding of Nature, Nature is dependent on " Divergence ", "out of the same-ness", or else evolution could of never ever even of happened!.........We would be just as we were 10,000 years ago !

And a " Female-roled-male" is very much a  " Divergence ", "out of the same-ness",,,thus a adaptation..


Evolvability is defined as the capacity of a system for adaptive evolution. Evolvability is the ability of a population of organisms to not merely generate genetic diversity, but to generate adaptive genetic diversity,



                                 Male Microchimerism(Mc) in the Human Female Brain

                   If the case is true that females can carry the DNA of many former sexual partners whom have ejaculated in them,

                   could apply to me, thus carrying the DNA of the many hundreds of male whom have ejaculated up in me ?

                      One clear thing it occurs by way of semen exchange, then from blood into brain.

                     Just a Scenario, 

                                                  Yet lets say I was a berdache in a tribe, and as I was in reality, I was very selective in my selection of          men I have sex with, and even more selective with the men whom I'd allowed to penetrate me anally and ejaculate in me.

                  Then lets say many or all of these men where killed, gone lost etc. I had stayed with the women , and mated with them for reproduction reasons, could I pass on the Dna to the women , from the Men whom had died, yet had prior been ejaculating in me for most of their lives growing up ?

                Say it was normal that after puberty, the males could started "boning" me, coming to me to be orally pleasured, and could for the remainer of their life, (with my consent and ethics)  I know this part , I am able to do, because in a way, I was sexually pleasuring a " tribe " of young horny straight men for 7 years

In conclusion, male Mc is frequent and widely distributed in the human female brain. Although the relationship between brain Mc and health versus disease requires further study, our findings suggest that Mc of fetal origin could impact maternal health and potentially be of evolutionary significance.


If this is true, it is possible that a " Female-roled-male " like myself whom was routinely having men ejaculating up in my bottom, over a 7 year period, amount of times I can't guess at, yet by say 2002, I could safely say that I'd take about 3-4 ejaculations weekly. Yet, on a certain week maybe 10-15 times, next week 0,  so hard to say.

Miriam Grossman, makes good sense here 

                   One thing about like myself , there are ethics of being female roled, 1. is never being in male role

                                                                                                                                    not ejaculating in the presents of another.

                                                                                                                                      (my role was to please them,not me,

                                                                                                                                                                                I                                                                                                                                                                                        masturbated later alone)

                                                                                                                                2. never allow a man to touch my penis in any way

                                                                                                                                3. I'd wash a man's penis off after he was done                                                                                                                                             ejaculating, where it was by way of blow-job,hand-                                                                                                                                     job, or boning me.

                                                                                                                                 4. getting Tested as often as possible,weekly!

                       I expected Honesty, there is not reason not to!

                          yet this represents a huge problem in 

                                   " Society ", which can only be

                       addressed in the tribe, small number of a 100 or so

                 This is what I am trying to address in "beyond chiefdom" and " Indigo club "

1. Society can't move ahead without being a member of a" tribe"

2. If one steps back and looks at North American tribes prior to white man, They had many " Tribes " why? and many if not all, had a       form of " berdache "

3. The Indigo club addresses the health aspect of it, " If all the males(str8) who have sex with the berdache are screened, proven           STD free, and the berdache is STD free, this is done!

                                                                   Few excerpts defining berdache roles

" In most of North American there exists the institution of the "berdache", as the French called  them. These men-women were men who at puberty or thereafter took the dress and occupations  of women.
  Some times they married other men and lived with them. Sometimes they were men with no  sexual inversion, persons of weak sexual endowment who chose this role to avoid the jeers of the  women " - patterns of culture page 263
So uniform is this point in time that Ruth Benedict, referring to the Plains nations, actually defines berdaches as "those who at puberty or thereafter took the dress and the occupations of women," (60) and I found no case in which that conversion is said to have taken place at an earlier age in this area. Now, as we shall see, many ethnographers describe the process by which these visions led boys to assume the status of a berdache as an exercise in free will. They had, after all, passed into the age of reason. In this way, the process of the Plains vision becomes standard evidence for the general claim that berdaches as a group chose freely, whereas that context of becoming a berdache in the Plains cannot, as the reader will see, be made to stand for all native peoples and for all earlier times. Still, a correct reading of the scientific literature on these visions will show that constraint and force were at the very heart of the experience of these adolescents when a vision led them to the status of berdache.
 As early as 1687 we find the "chef des femmes" of the Natchez accompanying the warriors on campaign, dressed as a woman and "doing the things women do." (56) Exactly the same role--as sexual providers inter alia, was encountered among the tribes of Texas in the eighteenth century, and so on deep into Zacarecas and beyond. (57) Naturally, this sexual service did not rule out other types of service for the warriors, including not only cooking and cleaning and the like, but, at least in the area of the Plains berdaches serving at times as trusted purveyors of information between tribes. (58)
The author describes the situation as follows. Illinois men were not satisfied by their women, who were not sufficiently forthcoming sexually. To correct this situation, so says de Liette, groups of boys were trained from childhood as passives to satisfy the needs of these braves. Clearly, the threat of the rape of Illinois girls was here just as present as it had been among the Yumas d'Alarcon encountered a century and a half earlier. Candidates for this status were identified as follows, de Liette continues:

      Thus for myself , I would of naturally at puberty, once starting to have sex with males in a very defined;

                                                              "female receptive"."berdache" role

          I would of naturally taken the "female role, in all ways I'd been able to", started dressing as such to "define" my role, sexually               serving all the puberty age males (if they knew the rules). And from my experience at 13, mostly likely many would of been                 routinely wanting me for sex, and I'm sure all ages, I remember even a gym teacher, whom really turned me on, had a huge                cock,and I dreamed of sucking it, he did show interest in me,and I think he would of let me suck him, I say he was in late 20's, if          things where different, I would let him  take me as a berdache. even today I wish he could of taken me sexually as a berdache.

Another aspect of the berdache as defined in some historical accounts; they were not "wimps",often as tough as any male, like myself, for example I was undefeated in wrestling from 4th grade til 9th grade period,in my age group, yet all weight groups. city wide. thus all the males knew this, so they knew they couldn't take advantage of me.As well; the berdache has a naturally formed alliance with the cooperating males!  The berdache is keeping the males away from females, at same time able to teach the males ethics of sex. The berdache at same time has alliance with all the females!


                                   Then the Europeans come, many saying in hopes of finding religious freedom ;

   The Earth is the Lord's - pbs.org

Following the desire for a better material life for themselves and their children, the desire for religious freedom probably motivated more immigrants to come to America than any other concern—and the two desires have often been inextricably linked. In the words of historian Will Durant, "For men came across the sea not merely to find new soil for their plows but to win freedom for their souls, to think and speak and worship as they would." 

           Yet took advantage of power, destroying others beliefs (Native Americans)
                              and now it's proving; that way wasn't the right way!

                                    Breeding like they lost their minds?
                          least Native Americans knew the reason not to;

                                       ♦ Puberty


Erections during sleep or when waking up are medically known as nocturnal penile tumescence and colloquially referred to as morning wood.[26] The penis can regularly get erect during sleep and men or boys often wake up with an erection.[27] Once a boy reaches his teenage years, erections occur much more frequently due to puberty.[28] Erections can occur spontaneously at any time of day, and if clothed may cause a bulge or "hump". This can be disguised or hidden by wearing close-fitting underwear, a long shirt and baggier clothes.[29] Erections are common for male children and infants, and can even occur before birth.[30] Spontaneous erections are also known as involuntary or unwanted erections and are normal. Such erections can be embarrassing if they happen in public, such as a classroom or living room.[31][32]

The "Female roled male, post puberty", ideally filled a role thoughout history and very much in a prostitutional type role

                                                  And one reason likely was to prevent this " Crazy type stuff "  


                         Currently we have "Porn" filling a critical void in a puberty age, sexually developing young male,

                            Yet dangerous, in it has no real structured guidance, no caring, very much anti-social.

                                              Now we watch as "Incel" young males develop

At least four mass murders, resulting in 45 deaths, have been committed in North America by men who have either self-identified as incels or who had mentioned incel-related names and writings in their private writings or Internet postings. Incel communities have been criticized by the media and researchers for being misogynistic, encouraging violence, spreading extremist views, and radicalizing their members

Pair bonds (social and/or sexual) are a biological phenomenon and are not equivalent to the human social institution of marriage. Marriage can be associated with a sexual or social pair bond; however, married couples do not necessarily have to experience both or either of these bonds. Marriage can be a consequence of pair bonding and vice versa; however, neither always creates or leads to the other. Pair bonding in humans helps explain extreme "bonds" that we may share with others but are unable to articulate in terms of contemporary "love"

                                                                           Role for Tribe


One thing for myself that has puzzled me is ; I like to reach orgasm, feels great, yet has never seemed the main desire, pleasuring my partner , making sure they reach orgasm ,seems to always be the main objective, whether male or female

                                                                             A form of group selection begins

One thing as well is in a Tribe, there may be 20 young males of post-puberty able to start mating as well as 20 young females of post-puberty able to start mating, yet due to the social structure, they are not allowed to mate. Or say there are 10 females and 20 males,

and I am as I am a Fem-male, all growing up around each other, once I had allowed one of the males to start penetrating me anally,

reach orgasm, the words out!, all the other males might at least want to try having sex with me, yet a recepical selection process now begins.

                                                I must be Fit for each one of them, each one of them must be Fit for me

                                                Lets say one of the males has always been mean to me, bully like, I can easily say No sex for you 

                                                unless you show respect / change your ways!

                                                Say One , can't keep himself clean, Change or no sex for you!

                                                Knowing myself, I'd be more then willing to have sex with all of them....Yet only if Fit !

                                                               Which means; Ethically,Morally,Respectfully,Hygenetically,Psychologically.

                                                                                         And I must be same for Them !

                                                 And I can help prepare them for sex with a Female, when a Female is finally available

                                                    by showing them proper ways to have sex with a female, with risk of pregnancy

                                                We must remember that Birth Control pills a New thing! , in terms of Human evolution.

                                                One thing with myself as well, I always told my men, if they had a wife / girl-friend , she was                                                         welcome to watch as he and I had sex , in a big part to show;

                               ♥ I was the only One being Feminine roled, that their man was not Gay !♥

                                                           And from my perspective there is no reason her and I could not be friends.

                                                           she could see how I perform fellatio, how I take a man's penis in my bottom etc.

                                           I have never Wished to Take the Role of a True Female,

                                thus don't wish to look female, only very feminine,

                                    and would never proclaim myself as Female

                                                and greatly try to convey this, 

                        As a Fem-male, my role is to be with Straight males only in a;

                                             not for pay "Prositutional type Role "

- Berdache Ways - (anthropological perspective)

In a sense, Native American cultures have institutionalized and socially sanctioned homosexual relations by utilizing the berdache role as the preferred same sex partner. When men want to have male/male sex, they are encouraged to do so with a berdache (95)

                     From a social dynamic perspective and the Attention I can get, which takes myself to a

                                                       extremely high Feminized / emasculate state of Mind

                                                             I prefer getting Group-boned , group Attention

                                                                                   if it was possible

                                                     Yet must be by a selected group of str8 men that are Fit !

     From direct experience of performing sexually for the men of my "Last Man Standing" parties where all the men 

     penetrated me repeatedly wearing condoms, clearly out in open for all to see..it was a very socially dynamic bonding

     event, sure the physical pleasure for myself could be great, yet the psychological pleasure of my feeling so feminine

     much greater. (50-60 men)  (in the course of party most actually penetrated me many times,so might get penetrated        many hundred of times, yet they never ejaculated in me )

     Same true when with a small group of men at a party setting,(3-10) where they had me there for me to perform for          them,sexually as a Fem-male, very much the reason I was there.They often would take me to room and in                            private,"bone" me, or I might suck one while another bones me, as other watch,then take their turn, difference being          most often they could / would ejaculate up inside me, or in my mouth , still the social dynamic of it                                                                                                                 was 

                    near was there, as all clearly knew what all where doing, thus a " Mutual Bond ", "Equal Vulnerability";

                                                                            two things

                                                      " very important to keep a group intact "

     Of the two types of group type roles I experienced, the small group type is better in that they could actually ejaculate in me,

      which is the ultimate psychological " High " for myself, actually taking a man's semen in me is intensely emasculating.

     I would try to or hope to perform for a group/groups every weekend, (by 2002 had about 6 groups, ranging 3-10),

          I'd say 3 or 4 men in one setting was most idea, as they could take their time with me, just a more intimate group size

                                              and perform for them individually during week as often as possible

      (thus by 2002 I was usually performing fellatio least once a day during week, some days might get boned, give head 4-5 times)

                    But to me, going to party and knowing a select group of men are going take turns boning me is the greatest!