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11/2/2019 Two Basic Types of Male to Female transsexuals;

                                       Non-homosexual and Homosexual

(1 )Non-homosexual transsexuals (MtoF) remain attracted sexually to females.

                                                                                                 

(2) Homosexual transsexuals (MtoF) are mainly attracted to Straight men, and Desire to be in      Female role sexually (this is the type  transsexual I identify as myself ) see Rod Fleming's site- allabouthsts.com


                                          What ever type one may be; First and Foremost it is a " State of Mind ", whether one has surgery,dresses

                                          like the a female (opposite sex) etc. doesn't matter, they have to be respected for the condition they are in,

                                          and not be judged by it.  I am transsexual from standpoint of I wish only to be in " Female Role ", sure I                                                 desire to have surgery, not to have a penis, look as female like as possible with a vulva, yet whether or not

                                          it happens is another thing. So in essense Transsexualism is the " desire to be "


                          " And if the most beautiful female(str8) and I were stranded on a island together, and became great friends,

                                 we would both long for a good man to get washed up on the beach , and take us both sexually " -me


                                                                          Another way to see it 



For myself, it is much more " natural " and non-homosexual for me having sex in female role with a non-homosexual man, verse having sex with a female, which is a lot more like a homosexual act, simply put " for me to have sex with a female is being " homosexual " . Or to have sex with a homosexual male is being " homosexual ", thus, I am only attracted to non-homosexual men, which seems like a non-homosexual act on my part,,,,simply the way my brain works, and always has.And for a non-homosexual man,I need to be lady-like for him.- me


                                                           Yet I am also not attracted other transsexuals

        And even tricky for myself, as I like to dress female like for men , yet to define my role as Fem-male, for most part, and just                always liked wearing dresses, garter / thigh highs in order to help me feel feminine, yet very much attracted to select Str8 men

       so I can be in female sexual role for them.


                                                                                                

   -Views on Pre-op verse Post-op genital confirmation surgery for transgender persons-

Typically, pre-op is used to refer to a trans person who has not had genital surgery.
With that said, the idea of a trans person being either pre-op or post-op is troubling, at best. Why?
Pre-op/post-op implies that getting an operation is somehow a defining characteristic of a trans person. It is not. I was a woman before I had a single surgery. I was a woman before I even realized that I was a woman. The surgeries I have had haven't made me more of a woman. Instead, they are tools that help me live my life with less gender dysphoria and more social ease.
My facial feminization surgery (FFS) allowed me to live, work, and interact socially as someone who is perceived as a woman. Most of the visual cues we use to assign a gender to someone can be found on our faces.
Breast implants made it easier for people to see a woman's body underneath my clothes. With a typical woman's secondary sex characteristics, I was also able to experience sexuality as a woman.
Genital surgery has allowed me to look in the mirror in the morning and see a body that is configured just like any other woman's body. I am no longer a woman with unusual anatomy. I am a woman who looks like a typical woman. I can't fully express how liberating that is.


In Eve Ensler's The Vagina Monologues, there is a monologue where trans women talk about their experiences, especially their experiences after having genital surgery. One of my favorite lines is, "a wrong has been righted." I was in three productions of The Vagina Monologues before I had my bottom surgery. When I woke the morning after my surgery, I looked down at my crotch, and I finally understood that line. "A wrong has been righted."
For me, multiple surgeries were medically necessary to ease my gender dysphoria. Other trans folks can ease their dysphoria without certain surgeries, or with none at all. Other trans people can't afford the surgeries that are necessary for them. Other trans people cannot get these major surgeries for various medical reasons.

Note: As terminology, the terms 'pre-op', 'post-op' and 'non-op' have fallen out of favor. What follows is, in part, a discussion of why.
The terms pre-op, post op, and non-op come from an era where thinking on transgender individuals assumed that genital surgery would always be a part of transition. Pre-op referred to transgender individuals who had not yet had genital surgery, post-op referred to transgender individuals who had already had genital surgery.
Within the community, both from the medical provider side and the transexual community, there was a sense that people who were 'non-op' (that did not want to ever have genital surgery) weren't really transexual, but were instead something else. This kind of thinking was significantly detrimental to a significant portion of the transgender population who (for whatever reasons) don't seek genital surgery. 


This method of thinking enforced notions of a required gender binary, and the notion that a trans person wasn't 'complete' if they hadn't had "the operation." It also created a divide in how people would rationalize the treatment of trans* individuals by cisgender individuals. (The often shouted: "I don't have to acknowledge this person's gender because they haven't had the operation yet" load of garbage.)
Sadly, we still see some of that thinking today. The idea that people aren't "trans enough" if they don't want genital surgery or that their gender isn't valid unless they've had it. It's arguably dehumanizing in that it distills a trans* person's identity, validity and gender down to what's in their pants. Some trans* people still find utility in the term and that it describes their personal lived experience and their view of gender, and they self identify as such. In a broader social context however, the terms are falling out of favor.
If you’re pre-op, it means you haven’t had any gender affirming surgery. Post-op is the opposite. However, you shouldn’t say every trans person who hasn’t had surgery is pre op because not every trans person wants to have surgery



                                                                                                   


                                                       Homosexual transsexuals



For myself as a , Homosexual transsexual type, (HSTS) I relate very much to following ;


In The Man Who Would Be Queen, J. Michael Bailey (2003) wrote that the homosexual transsexuals he studied are comfortable with prostitution,[32] and that they have a masculine sexual appetite, but are attracted to men.[32] He reviewed evidence for a taxonomy according to which there are two forms of transsexualism in males, one that is an extreme type of homosexuality and one that is an expression of a paraphilia known as autogynephilia. In The Transsexual Phenomenon (1966), Harry Benjamin writes that "Other transsexuals find prostitution a useful profession for emotional as well as practical reasons..."[8]:50–51 Benjamin goes on to say "How much more can his femininity be reaffirmed than by again and again attracting normal, heterosexual, and unsuspecting men and even being paid for rendering sex service as a woman?"[8]

Except in context of (clearly telling them I was a Fem-male) ;  "How much more can my femininity be reaffirmed than by again and again attracting normal, heterosexual men, and asking them to "please treat me like a "Lady", cause I want to feel as one,be as one, often

nearly begging them to have their cock up in my bottom ejaculating ". And as often as they could find the time,asking them to tell their friends about me. thus a " prostitutional type role ", so men would have sex with me,

in my female role, to help me feel " Lady-like "  When I have a man's penis up inside me, I feel very "Lady-like "


                                                                                                  

Autogynephilic and HomoSexual MtF in Asia -rodfleming.com

All male-to-feminine (MtF) trans  are EITHER homosexual (exclusively attracted to men from childhood-me) or non-homosexual (not exclusively attracted to men from childhood.) The latter are commonly known as autogynephilic. This distinction is obvious and has been observed since the 19th century. It is recognised as fundamental by all serious scientists working in the field.

Homosexual Transsexuals (HSTS) exhibit a cluster of trait characteristics in addition to their sexual desire for men. They tend to be small, delicately built, light for their height, naturally feminine and neotenous. They have intense difficulty learning to be masculine, if they ever do. Non-homosexual trans exhibit no such clustering; in fact they conform to the averages for men of their ethnicity and are attracted to women.

The explanation for HSTS is easy and has never been disputed: they desire men and are feminine, so to attract men, whom they know to be attracted to femininity, they make themselves more feminine. Again none of this is true of non-homosexuals; so why on earth might it be that a man, who is not attracted to or seeking to attract men, would want to appear to be feminine? rodfleming.com

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                       How I relate to "HSTS" homosexual male to female trans.


I knew who I was attracted to sexually by age 13,and knew in my heart I wanted to be like the          girls, yet soon felt ashamed,even today..I feel as a failure and fight that feeling 


I have never desired to be masculine, only have desired to be feminine


Have since soon after being married, my desire to be in female role for a man or men, was              growing stronger, more and more wanted to feel feminine, needed a man to femininize me.


Very much wanted to a "girly-boy" again,like when 13, wanted so much to feel a man's penis up

   inside me again.

Not until 1998 would I finally get to be a Str8 man's " girly-boyfriend again, but believe me I was 

  so ready !, when he finally was sliding his penis up inside me, it was one of greatest psychological

  feelings I ever had, a mix of my male sexuality dissolving, realizing my true identity,feeling so

  Feminine and psychologically being 100% emasculated in a the female role sexually. Never again    would I ever consider being like a man sexually,to have sex as though I where a man, I can no          longer even comprehend.


Soon my want to be physically 100% emasculated- vulvoplasty surgery,to remove my penis and        have female looking vulva , to match the way I felt sexually/self image, and wanting my boyfriends

  (as soon I was having sex with quite a few Str8 men routinely) to see I was fully dedicated to being a "Female roled male.

  Show them, even though I might seem male on outside, on inside I am as female like as I can           possibly be. note; I never desired to be identified as a "Female", yet always desired to identified as;

                                                                  100% Female roled male, I asked my men to call me a "Fem-male"

                                                                                   " with a Capital F ", and now "Please Bone me good!"

                                                                          


♦ My desire to be feminine looking is from practical stand point of projecting to a Str8 man, that I am    available sexually for him, and  exclusively in the female role ;

        "I want to perform fellatio on him,masturbate him,take his penis up in my bottom to be                         impregnated "

♦ I am very much available for him in a "postitutional" type role, on call to sexually pleasure him.


♦ Due to fact, it was known with my men, they and I both knew the role I was playing was a 

   prostitutional type role,once they were routinely seeing me, I would hint to them often,things like;

   for example ,,,ask them " would you like to watch one of your friends fuck me ?", or tell them my         fantasy was to get party-fucked by a group of horny hung Str8 20 year olds, this allowed me to         get double teamed a lot by two men at once, and lead me to my "last man standing parties",             where in a very controlled setting, I'd get gang-banged by 50-60 str8 men throughout course of         day and night.

                                                                                                

Like Rod Fleming states at aprox: 4:20 in below video HSTS trans are " Cock crazy!", I very much fit that "mold", I love cock! in me

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                            One of the biggest things for me to over-come was and still is ; 

                                         "The constant Shaming/condemning by religions "

A statement I made to a Christian group;

Michael Emery
I believe here in the United States, it is very,very important to realize this country is based on freedom of religious belief,and if christianity ,islam wish to not accept homosexuality for their followers, that is a right, but also respect those whom do believe in homosexuality from other beliefs..Thanks
                                                                                              -Homosexuality in the Ancient World/thinktheology.org

I think I am very good at being very feminine and lady like for a Real Man, maybe because I've had to try harder to sexual pleasure,to be feminine, so they would keep seeing me.? and I swallow :)

few excerpts from HSTS above ;

"transgender homosexual males not only desire men, they desire to play the role of women, to men. In other words, they are receptive in sex. In addition, they tend to desire to be protected by their partners and to be submissive socially as well as sexually. They are looking, in a partner, for a strong, conventionally masculine personality, to whom they will submit in bed and defer in society. In females, the opposite holds true".


"Once you were through puberty, this just got stronger. Performing as a boy in society was next to impossible for you, a torture. Your sexual desire — always powerful in adolescent boys — was now fixed on the idea of being penetrated, being the submissive partner. You might have thought you were a ‘gay boy’ and may have experimented sexually with ‘frotting’, fingering and even being penetrated, with other boys, perhaps transgender homosexuals like yourself or maybe straight boys who just wanted to have sex. But these encounters did not slake your thirst, even if you enjoyed them. You wanted a man, not a boy and especially not a ‘gay boy’ whom you recognised as being as much a girl as you were."

 (even at 13, I was wanting very much older men, big cocks they had)

"The ‘gay scene’ held no attraction for you, you thought it an ugly, sex-obsessed meat market. You dreamed of a nice man who treated you well, a nice house and maybe even, if he already had kids, of being their stepmother."


In Blanchard, HSTS are never bisexual; one is either homosexual or nonhomosexual."


"Homosexual transsexualism, or HSTS, has a recorded history as long as writing itself, from 6,000 years ago and before. It is the natural end point of the developmental scale of human homosexuality. Today, we recognise that homosexuality is an innate sexuality, that is, it’s not learned or ‘socialised’.

Because it is innate, we should expect to find homosexuality across all human cultures at all times and this we do. It is mentioned – often negatively, in many ancient texts like the Bible, the Hindu texts, the Koran and so on. There are numerous reports of it throughout history. Sometimes, as in Europe or where the writers were European, this has been negative. Elsewhere, records are more balanced in tone.

The close link between HSTS and homosexuality, together with the copious records, suggest that it too is a fundamental and intrinsic aspect of human nature. Despite often extreme social intolerance, then, HSTS has lived on throughout the ages of human culture. Its appearance in the West in recent decades should be seen not as a new phenomenon but as the reappearance of a natural part of the human condition that had been suppressed, for centuries, by brutal, often lethal violence, frequently promoted by religion."


As an aside, if you are used to having anal sex with a woman, you are in for a surprise. It is the author’s experience, and that of other men whom he has interviewed, that an HSTS’ anus can be much tighter than a woman’s. Indeed, a famous Roman, (name) on being challenged by his wife for mounting his boy slaves when she had an anus too, is reputed to have said, ‘No, my dear; you have two vaginas.’ The Romans evidently knew a thing o two about this.

(I know, my men loved the tightness of my bottom))


Pre-op HSTS can be divided into two groups: those who like to have their penises sucked and played with and those who do not(me). Men should find out what their partner’ preference is before touching it. If she doesn’t like it, stay away from it.

Remember: HSTS want straight, not homosexual men and your lover may be testing you. It is not at all uncommon for a girl to ditch a lover for having displayed too much interest in her penis. Ask yourself why you want to play with what is, after all, another male organ. If you’re only interested in that, then perhaps you would be better having sex with another man and accepting your homosexuality. If you’re only doing it because she wants you to, then that’s a different case. But it is relatively rare to find an HSTS who wants to be fellated — or at least, who will admit it.


Anal-only orgasm

Yes, it is absolutely possible for an HSTS to climax using only anal stimulation. This is normal. The popular myth that ‘an anus is not a sex organ so orgasms are impossible’ displays complete ignorance. In fact, the prostate gland, which sits at the base of the penis and is responsible for producing about 90% of ejaculate, is extremely sensitive to massage and stimulating it in the right way will provoke massive orgasms in the individual.

your HSTS girlfriend wants to fuck you.
NO. This is extremely rare. If you seek to be penetrated, then stay away from HSTS. You can still have a trans girlfriend, but not an HSTS one. Any transwoman who would do this will either be a gay crossdresser or an autogynephilic transvestite. In either case, understand that your desire to be penetrated means you are not straight. You might be bisexual or you might yourself be autogynephilic. But you are not a straight man. HSTS are only interested in relationships with straight men and it would be better if you respected that.
   

Few points at Rod Fleming's allabouthsts.com site " what is hsts " I relate to / identify with ;


 ♦ A transgender homosexual will transition if his or her transition desire is stronger than his or her fear of the consequences of transition. Further, they will only transition if they believe they can ‘pass’, that is, be able to live, unremarked, in their desired gender.


 ♦ Especially for males, transgender homosexuals have a a limited time. If they do not transition by around the age of twenty, they may not be able to at all, since the masculinisation being effected on their bodies by testosterone may make it impossible for them to ‘pass’. Sadly, it appears to be the end of certain commenters, including some claiming to be professionals, to ensure exactly this: that transgender homosexuals are prevented from transitioning until it is too late.

 ♦ In Blanchard, ‘homosexuals’ are ‘exclusively attracted to same-sex from childhood’. Nonhomosexual is everyone else. There is no ‘bisexual’ classification. All transitioners — indeed, all of us — are either homosexual or nonhomosexual by this measure. It is an on-off switch. However, this conflicts with what we know of Sexual Inversion.    (for myself I define it as the mental state of always " wanting to be

in the female role sexually for a Man,and having him make me feel Lady-like )-me


 ♦ From the point of view of a person who thinks he or she might be HSTS, understanding the nature of Sexual Inversion, that it is innate and cannot be reversed and that the simplest and kindest solution is to follow it to its natural conclusion, transition, is the lesson to take from this. While many such individuals will be comfortable with hormonal and social transition, for some, full surgical transition is necessary.

   ( for myself  the " vulvoplasty type surgery " has only been a great desire,and the high degree of feminisation that offers ) 


 ♦ Sexually inverted young people and those who care for them, today are bombarded by conflicting advice. An unholy alliance of religious conservatives, feminists and conforming ‘gays’ has come together in the ‘Gender Critical Movement’ which is determined to shut down all transition. This is clearly abusive and is happening for obviously political reasons, with no thought for the individuals concerned. On the other hand, enthusiasts are guilty of encouraging transition at far too early an age and without anything like sufficient rigour. The individual and his or her family and professional helpers must find a way through this minefield.


                                 And must become as educated as must as possible, prior to ever making any set decisions- me









What mainly defines me as " Transsexual ", third-gender, female-roled-male, is life time longing not to have a penis, and be a Man's ; 

                                                                                        "Girly-boyfriend"

                                                                    and having no desire to be like a male sexually

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                          Non-Homosexual transsexualson

                      Blanchard's  Autogynephilia

                                                           Personal I don't relate to this type person as far as traits,

                                                            as I am highly homosexual /highly female psychosexually

                                                                                                   

Perhaps more importantly, however, Blanchard identified another group that was presenting in significant numbers. This group he found puzzling. The people in it were older. They were not in any way feminine or effeminate and they had extreme difficulty ‘passing’ as women. They were overwhelmingly white, with middle-class, professional backgrounds who had been successful in their careers. In addition, they were nearly always married and usually had children. Frequently these last were at the point of becoming independent. Most importantly, however, these individuals were never attracted to men, at least prior to transition.


This dichotomy had been observed before, since the time of Magnus Hirschfeld, but nobody had been able to explain what was going on. Blanchard HSTS were easy to understand: they are socially, sexually, romantically and behaviourally women. It really is that simple. They may not be women in a biological sense but in every other way, that is what they are.


The second group was not like that and their profile was much more difficult to describe.  These individuals were sexually, socially, romantically and behaviourally men as well as being biological males. Thy could not have been more different from the HSTS profile. Blanchard argued that the root cause of their condition must reside in their male sexuality, since they clearly could not have a female one.


This observation, backed up by statistical surveys and questionnaires, led Blanchard to  the discovery  that the most important such factor in this second group was their attraction to themselves, as women.  This allowed him to formulate a testable hypothesis:

                     ‘Autogynephilia is a man’s propensity to be attracted to himself, as a woman.’



Fundamentally, this remains unchallenged science. However, other researchers have highlighted differences  in the profiles of the AGPs they studied, from the Blanchard model. This probably means that there is significant cultural overlay on the basic condition, which is already complex.

Looking at the situation in Asia, where most AGPs present with markedly different profiles from the West, tends to confirm this. So while the attraction of the subject to the idea of being a woman remains the underlying motivation, the precise manner in which this may be satisfied is remarkably varied.

Most people, including HSTS, are attracted to personalities outside the self: other people. AGPs are different: their primary objects of sexual attraction are themselves, but as women. Blanchard called this misdirection of sexual attraction an ‘Erotic Target Location Error’.

In the West, many men with this condition remain secret fetishistic cross dressers all their lives. Their visibility is directly related to social factors: the less acceptable it is for a man to wear women’s clothing, the more likely that they will keep their behaviour a secret. A great many go to their graves without their wives or children ever knowing the truth.


Second Personality.

This means that a second personality must be created by the subject, to fall in love with. Typically this appears soon after the onset of the condition.

This second personality grows within the mind of the subject. It was created as an object of desire and has been nourished through rewarding behaviour,  often for decades. It may become so powerful that it overwhelms the male personality that invented it. At this point the subject becomes intensely uncomfortable with being a man and feels a need to transition.


In the West this typically happens in  in middle age; it was overwhelmingly the case when Blanchard was researching autogynephilia. The results can be catastrophic. The wife of such an individual may be told she must ‘become a lesbian’ by the man she married. However he is not really the man she married but a secret personality he has been developing for decades. The man she married is effectively dead, his personality swamped.

The classic, late-transitioning Western AGP remains a man in every sense except that of appearance. His attraction to women remains exactly the same as a hetero-normative male’s.

Two other forms.

This ‘classic’ profile accounts for some 60% or more of AGPs. However, Blanchard identified two other sexual desires.

The first he termed ‘analloerotic’. Sometimes these indivuiduals are misrepresented as ‘asexual;’ but this is simplistic. Analloerotics are unable to derive sexual pleasure from their genitalia. Instead they get it from such things as using women’s toilets, from ‘dressing parties’, which are frequently advertised in the media targeting AGPs;  and from knitting and other stereotypically ‘women’s’ roles. Here the reward that feeds the autogynephilia is  social acceptance as women.

The other group of AGPs identified by Blanchard he called ‘bisexual’. Like the others, prior to transition, these men have no sexual interest in other men. However, once they begin hormone therapy and begin to feminise, these individuals  explore being women in a more challenging environment. For them, going out in public dressed in women’s clothes is not enough. They need to  be sexually desired by men.

This is an extension of their autogynephilia, in which the person they have created must be taken, not just socially but also sexually,  as a woman. Blanchard called this phenomenon ‘pseudo-bisexuality’. The individuals in this group often elect to have GRS, but not always. There is a significant number of  sex workers in the West who conform to this type. Many of their male clients are also AGP .

Competition reward.

Another path that AGPs may follow to assuage their autogynephilia is through competition against natal women. Mianne Bagger, for example was the first transwoman golfer. More concerning is Fallon Fox, who became an MMA fighter after transitioning. Success in these fields satisfies the autogynephilia through the fantasy of being ‘accepted’ as women — though quite how using a man’s physique to beat the pulp out of natal women can be tolerated is unimaginable; well, if you’re not persuaded by the Post-Modernist bunk of ‘Identity Politics’.

A more civilised form of competition — or at least one less likely to cause physical harm — is  in beauty pageants and  modelling. This is hugely popular across Asia and elsewhere and HSTS and AGP transsexuals compete with each other on all fours– and the AGPs often win.


Competing in the sex market.

Even more interestingly, perhaps, is a phenomenon seen in Italy and Spain. Both are well known destinations of South American travesti, or transsexual prostitutes. Many of these advertise through websites like Arcaton or  Distintas, which categorise escorts as ‘travesti’ or ‘women’. Only a minority have GRS but if they do, they will immediately remove all trace of their former selves and re-appear, as women prostitutes. They then compete directly with women for male clientèle.

Such avenues are closed to the majority of Western AGPs because they transition so late. By the time they do, they are thoroughly masculinised physically; they can never hope to pass as women, far less compete with them in physical beauty. Furthermore, their youthful socialisation has given them no training in how to act like a woman, so not only do they look like men, they act like them.

However, in the decades since Blanchard defined autogynephilia, much has changed. Even in the West, autogynephiles are presenting much younger and can be extremely attractive (if tall.)  Dutch model Kelly van der Veer and Canadian Jenna Talakova come to mind. Or what about Bianca (below)? Is she HSTS or AGP?

The fact is that autogynephilia is an enormously complicated and disparate phenomenon which science still has much to learn about. What is not in doubt is that it is real and it is the stimulus for an unknown percentage, possibly a  majority, of male-to-female transitions.


 non-homosexual trans type

Kristin Beck - navy seal is non-homosexual trans.

Bruce “Caitlyn” Jenner

Western autogynephiles ( non homosexual trans)and their sycophants, on the other hand, loathe Blanchard and his theory and do everything they can to deny the science and spread misinformation, because they do not wish it to be known that their ‘gender identity’ is a function of a misdirected sex drive...….?    I do see this as a issue-me

                                                                                             

Early onset transsexualism is usually an extreme form of homosexuality. 90% of early onset male to female transsexuals were gay men before they transitioined, so after transition, they remain attracted to men. Nearly all early onset female to male transsexuals were lesbians before they transitioned. After they transition, they remain attracted to women. Heterosexual early-onset transsexuals are rare, especially among women. In the older literature, early onset male to female transsexuals are referred to as Classic Transsexuals.

Late onset male to female transsexualism is probably related to autogynophilia and is almost certainly not organic. In the older literature, these people are called Fetishistic Transsexuals. Autogynophilia is a paraphilia that is developmental as all paraphilias are. These men are turned on sexually by the image of themselves as a woman. Bruce/Caitlin Jenner is almost certainly this type of transsexual.

However, these men differ from traditional fetishistic transvestites in many ways, as they have cross-dressed more and for longer, and they are much more likely to see themselves as women.


Of late onset male to female or Fetishistic transsexuals, 1/3 are gay, 1/3 are bisexual, and 1/3 are straight. Oddly enough, many late onset male to female transsexuals have been extremely masculine in their lives before they became transsexual.- quora.com


My guess is this person was not " Homosexually transgender" prior to surgery, say as Bruce Jenner, Kristin Beck and likely felt 

feminine in some non-sexual way, thus imagining only the desire to appear as female, turned on by the image of themselves looking female like, yet lacking the need to be in sexual role with a man ,as a female. A good mix for failure.


And the difference between why I desire to appear Feminine, and the non-homosexual , can clearly be hard to navigate.

Yet quite clear, if ask one simply question, " Who am I desiring to look Feminine for , my partner, or my self ? "

                                 "I clearly want to look feminine for my partner, or to attract, then keep a partner " 

                                            Just as a Normal heterosexual female does, maybe even more !


                                                                                                   

               Rod Flemings points out some very important aspects of being " Trans "